Proud Tag Dictionary

This month the acronym LGBTIQ+ will resonate like a batucada. And that's because, every day,

the word diversity is more diverse and encompasses More labels than a supermarket: cisheteronormative, non-binary, genderfluid, biphobia, queer… to the point that, with so many labels, it's normal to get completely confused.

That's why today, so you don't look like you're sucking on lemons when you hear a new term… We give you a 'simple' overview (without aiming to be exhaustive, without wanting to offend anyone), of proud and unfiltered labels.

Dictionary of proud labels - beyond LGBTIQ+

The basic pieces of 'lego':

  • Biological sex/assigned at birth. What the doctor tells your mother you are at birth based on your genitals, hormones, genes…
  • Gender. What society/culture/history expects of us for having been born with a penis or vagina ('male' vs. 'female').
For a long time, sex was assumed to equal gender (man = male; woman = female), but no. We're going to talk about sexual identity, on the one hand, and gender identity, on the other. Let's double-click:

Basics of the rainbow of sexual identity or orientation:

Based on your biological sex and who you feel emotional, romantic, or sexual attraction to, we find people:

  • Heterosexuals. Who feels exclusive attraction towards people of the opposite sex.

  • Homosexuals. Who feel exclusive attraction towards people of the same sex (gays, lesbians, faggots, dykes, …)
    • Homophobia and lesbophobia. Any form of discrimination (conscious or unconscious) towards homosexual people.
    • Internalized homophobia. The rejection or non-acceptance of one's own homosexuality or some part or expression of it (conscious or unconscious).

  • BisexualSomeone who feels attraction towards people, regardless of their sex.
    • Biphobia. Discrimination against bisexual people.

  • AsexualsThat she feels no attraction whatsoever.


Another batch of basics, but now from the melting pot of gender identities

Based on your gender expression (how you behave vs. what society expects of you) or gender identity (how you identify yourself) (remember; what is considered 'masculine' or 'feminine') we find people:

  • Cisgender, people whose gender identity and sex assigned at birth match (e.g., the doctor said I was born a boy and I identify with a 'masculine' role)
    • Cisheteronormativity. Everything that implies considering heterosexuality and cisgender people as "normal" (as opposed to "not normal").
    • Toxic masculinities. The various ways in which our society/culture has established what a man should be throughout history… and which have a negative impact on society or on the individual. Fortunately, This is evolving.

  • Trans, people whose gender identity or expression does not match the biological sex they were assigned at birth
    • Transphobia. Any form of discrimination against trans people.

  • Non-binary, all those who do not identify exclusively with a single gender.
    • Agender. Not identifying with either of the two binary genders. Neither ma'am nor ma'am.
    • Gender fluid. That their gender identity changes from time to time and through different stages.
    • Bigender. Someone who feels like they belong to both binary genders (part female and part male).
    • Trigender... who feels part feminine, part masculine and also of a third gender (which can be neutral gender or a mix of all three).
    • Pangeneric. One who identifies with all at once.
    • Genderqueer or non-conforming. Someone who does not want to identify with binary gender labels.

AND… everything that doesn't fit within the acronym LGBTIQ+Polysexuality, demisexuality, sapiosexuality… And there are still more to come. Because with one diversity increasingly flexible and visible, this dictionary could not end here.

Label yourself with pride

Yes, I know that labels are a mess.

Some people avoid them like oil and water and feel freer without them.


Some people need them to feel pride of belonging, foundations or life rafts to hold onto while they learn to swim in the sea of ​​self-knowledge.

Whatever your opinion, Labels have their function:

  • Because what is not named does not exist, and no we have reached this point by hiding realities that finally have names and surnames.
  • Because they are “only” a way to find common and safe territories, shared experiences and a community that welcomes you with open arms.
Perhaps in the future we'll be able to leave labels at the supermarket because we won't need them anymore. But until then, we'll keep bringing out of the closet and celebrating every new reality that we couldn't or didn't know how to name before.

PS: This week's post is sponsored… For nothing more and nothing less than our favorite labels. The ones that get seared into your skin, burned into your very being, because they scream to the world "faggot," "whore," "Mexican babe"... Literally.

Until July 10th, our LGBT-themed stickers are back, free with all purchases over €29.95 (while supplies last). Wear them on your skin to show what you want people to say to your face.

We do cool right,
Siwon