How to sneak into their DMs so they can make you feel good... and little things

 

Wow, wow... 

Do you practice trawling instead of harpoon fishing in nets to see what falls? 

Statistics will surely end up working for you (science is cool) but if you really want them to make you a house among so many emojis of little fires and “ontas? I'll send you an Uber...    

This week we share a couple of tricks to sneak into their DMs and make them welcome you with the doors (and whatever arises) wide open.

Step 1. Make your profile before the action 🤳

Your profile = that fine line that separates the first impression ending in “who is that man?”… from “not with you, bug.”   

Selfies with more filters than a Starbucks, photos with casual gymbro poses looking at the camera, the 87970 OnlyFans profiles you follow...    

🤔 We don't judge, but your crush does. So apply a little digital Marie Kondo and clean up everything that you don't think will scare away the initial flirtation.

Step 2. Record what's going for you 🔎

A little bit of stalking always helps to personalize a good opening phrase: you can look at the music lists he follows on Spotify, the type of restaurant he frequents by checking the location of those food photos he uploads to Instagram , the type of joint and brands you follow,…

Step 3. The warm-up likes ❤️‍🔥

Just like you don't go to a Zumba class or practice yoga postures without stretching... You aren't going to practice the Olympic Shot By DM without a little warm-up before throwing the first token.

For that, Likes are like a virtual wink, wink 😜 and anticipate your intentions.   

So choose wisely where you put them and use them sparingly (don't go down until the pre-pandemic time, the idea is to sneak into their notifications, not their block list.)   

Step 4. Writing… the DM of your (wet) dreams 💌

You already know that there are no golden rules... just a few guides:

Don't stay in an eternal “writing…”. According to studies, it takes us guys 15 MINUTES to write the first DM. Doesn't it take you the same time to ask the waiter for your first beer? Well that.

To break the ice, never little fireworks, dickpics, or compliments from a bricklayer at a construction site. It's one thing to drool with every selfie you post... and another to enter like a slug. Keep up appearances, at least in the first message.

If you don't contribute, set aside. Pull on the common tastes that you had stalked so that the conversation flows.
    ○If he likes the mountains... ask him what was the coolest place he's climbed... and where are you going together next time.  
   ○Are you streaming a Netflix marathon through stories? Recommend another movie or series like that...    
  ○Do you like the way that song I put on the reels sounds? You should listen to my phone number.   

Playing around always guarantees a smooth entry and, where appropriate, dignified rejections. Have you seen the latest Temptation Island meme? Are you team Shakira or team Piqué? Pizza with or without pineapple? You will guarantee interest and you will never regret having written it.

Step #5. Invite action… offline

It's time to face it, get out of chat mode and take action in the flesh (mmm🥵).  

After all the work that has brought you to this final step, chances are that you have come up with a handful of excuses for that first "Do we drink something?".    

Again, first of all... make it seem casual: a beer, walking the dog or having a drink.   

May you end up on a First Dates-style speed date or with your new friend Cuffing Season, It is secondary.   

If after online piki-piki some feelings and palpitations awaken in you...

The magic of this new digital cupid that is your Instagram is in knowing something that turns your colors up (and what colors are not), accumulating anecdotes for LOLs and enjoying it while you spread love throughout the world (you the first ).

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