Allergy to commitment: we do it… and we see

Friends with benefits, one night stands, adventures, spring rolls or summer loves...

If labeling your relationships causes you hives, nausea, blurred vision, difficulty breathing, and chest pains...

We have another tag... for you: what if you are allergic to commitment?

This week we take advantage of the fact that Singles' Day is celebrated or to give you the diagnosis to the bottom; ITV to your heart. The psychotechnician to see if your thing is to be called “my baby”, “my love” or “my cotufito”… or to be happy from night to night via DM with: “ontas? I'll send you an Uber.”

Ready?

The diagnosis: what is the fear of commitment about?

The fear of commitment is (surprise, surprise) the fear of everything that love implies = the butterflies in the stomach of Disney movies, taking the “next step” in a relationship or simply to connect emotionally with another person (because this also happens with colleagues and family, not just as a couple).

Now, the disclaimer is coming…

Although there is nothing more democratic and natural than fear...

The bad thing is when that allergy to love, in all its forms, transforms into a phobia that ends up touching the bone in self-love... and that of course destroys more relationships than Temptation Island.

Symptoms: x-ray of someone allergic to commitment

Just as social relationships are more fluid and diverse every day, it is OBVIOUS that not all people afraid of commitment are cut from the same cloth.

But if we had to list the most common characteristics, it would look something like this:

Future plans? We'll see…
Level 'L' in conflict management.
They live on a daily emotional roller coaster.
About making decisions... he doesn't know, he doesn't answer, NEXT.
They are #FuckingScared of losing their freedom and independence.
Tendency to jealousy and control due to fear of abandonment.
They work hard to manage and express their emotions.
Your most faithful companion in all your relationships: insecurity.
Conspiracy theories: they think that there is always something that is going to go wrong.
It's not love... what you feel is an obsession with the courtship and fooling around phase: forever hooked on the pre-twerking.

The causes: why are we reluctant to commit?

By evolution, statistics and biology

It is inevitable that there are more and more singles in the world. We don't say it , people who understand say it. Little word.

Trying to run away from this is like trying to run away from pollen in the spring.

For traditions that smell like mothballs.

Fidelity as the culmination of commitment? Monogamy as the only way to form lasting relationships? Marriage for life as if it were the real “who could”?

We deserve to turn the page on those ideas that are more trendy than gotelé.

For a catalog of fears that not even Netflix has on Halloween.

Miedo a perder nuestra libertad, a perder oportunidades de futuro, a perderte “el amor de tu vida”. Miedo a revivir experiencias pasadas y dolorosas. Miedo a que las cosas no salgan como esperabas. Miedo a la intimidad con alguien y mostrarte vulnerable…

In summary? Fear of leaving behind all the fears that do not fit on this list.

Because the matches are no longer what they were.

Although flirting apps can be the way to look for love or to find your trusted tinderfuck ... The polar cold of black backgrounds, the photos of a headless body or the "if I have screwed you I don't remember" don't tell you remove anyone.

What have we all caught thanks to Tinder? Yes. That from time to time we miss a supermatch at suspicious hours of the night? Could be. Is finding love on an app stressful? You should know...

Dr. Siwon's recipe for reconciling yourself with commitment

Obligations, agreements, demands... Don't you like the definition of commitment that you have been told to date? Well, change to one that matches you.

At the end of that comes the commitment, right? To build something with someone honestly, but always on your own terms: expectations, complicity, intimacy (💦), mutual respect, that you understand each other...

So…

● If you like the idea of getting to know people in depth, even if your Tinder is more like the deep web...

● If you #PutoFlipa are single and enjoying life in #AllTheSingleLadies mode...

● If you are more into making a spoon than making random skewers...

~~Antihistamine and lots of water.~~

Have a good time in the process and twerk as much as you can (and want), maybe yours with commitment started as a forbidden love... and ends as a love for all of life.

PD:And as Rupaul says: if you can't give self-love to yourself, how are you going to love the rest of the group?

Well, maybe it wasn't like that, but the idea is the same:

Before you start handing out heart and eggplant emojis, give yourself a shot of self-love with our Handsomefyer Xtra to leave you a face that raises passions, hearts and whatever arises wherever it passes.

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Siwon

🚨 Attention to all units. This is an emergency call, beibi. Man with skincare overdose. We need reinforcements.🚨

📣 Siwon, speaking: we are forced to release an urgent statement.

We are experiencing an avalanche of creampies:

With asset names more complicated to pronounce than IKEA furniture
With lists of ingredients that leave you more cross-eyed than the magic eye books from when you were a kid (memory unlocked)
With 'it's natural', 'clinical results', more is more...

Pure cosmetic gluttony, hey.

And in the end you, full of junk and without really knowing why.

For this reason, and to practice conscious cosmetic hedonism - few things, but with great taste and intention - we have prepared this guide with the richest and healthiest cosmetic vitamins for your face. We will touch it and expand it from time to time.

VITAMINS FOR YOUR SKIN

Vitamina A 🥕 'A'… de AA: Anti-Aging

What is it?
Some eat carrots in pairs. We are more into slathering ourselves in retinol, vitamin A in the form of a cosmetic active ingredient. It is the best known anti-aging: it reduces wrinkles, expression lines,…. Stimulates the renewal of your skin (Wolverine-style) by making the 'factory go into overdrive' to produce those things that are lost/slowed down with age: collagen, proteins, etc.

How does your face look?
Well, with a fresher appearance... cooler than James Dean in his younger years.

Where do I find it?
In our WOWYOUNG pro-aging night cream

👉Do you want to know more? Debunking myths... retinol

Vitamin B (3) 💃 'B3'... good, pretty and beautiful

What is it?
Also known as niacinamide, it is the “anti-system” vitamin by nature: anti-spots, anti-inflammatory, anti-pimples, anti-redness and, therefore, anti-haters. It is such a democratic ingredient that it works for almost all skin types. (Yes, it turns out that niacinamide is more tolerant than Roy Galán.)

How does your face look?
Well, to touch your palms with joy when you look in the mirror.

Where do I find it?
In our Handsomefyer tuner

👉Do you want to know more? Handsomefyer , the instant tuner

Vitamin B (5) 🙏 'B5' from… with hydration and lubricating I put it into you…

What is it?
If in this lottery that is life, you have had to deal with dry skin, tighter than Lomana every winter, panthenol or vitamin B5 is your ally in this tough battle.

How does your face look?
Hydrated, hydrated. In addition, there is some study that attributes some anti-inflammatory and regenerating action to your skin's natural barrier as if it were Easter Sunday.

Vitamin C 🍊 'C' Color of the sand of the Camino Rocero

What is it?
The most searched ingredient for Britney in 2007. It has many functions, but above all it stands out for providing luminosity to your face.

How does your face look?
Lola Flores said that “the shine in your eyes cannot be operated on”… but you won't find the luminosity that remains after using vitamin C in the morning, not even with the Kardashians' favorite surgeon.

Where do I find it?
It's also in our Handsomefyer all-in-1 tuner

Vitamin D ☀️ 'D' de Dame cremita

What is it?
The vitamin that comes from space. The one that warms you and brings out your colors. The taste of the sun on the face.

How does your face look?
Well, actually, getting tan... is secondary. Vitamin D helps more with the general health of the skin, hair, muscles... even teeth and bones. When you lack vitamin D, your body knows it.

Where do I find it?
Sunbathing but without going overboard. 10-15 minutes, 3 times a week (depending on your skin type) is more than enough. Don't act like that, otherwise you'll age faster and worse than Christopher Nolan's movies.

Vitamin E 🌊 'E' from mirror mirror…

What is it?
Vitamin E or tocopherol - we know, it sounds like a prison nickname, but the benefits of its use are much more enjoyable than scary -, it is an absolute antioxidant. And, if that were not enough, it is capable of extending the useful life of other cosmetic active ingredients: the little blue pill of skincare.

How does your face look?
Well, protected: from the weather, from pollution and from free radicals (which are not angry anti-system).

Where do I find it?
Well, for example in Dragon Shot , which in addition to leaving your face hydrated, you will notice that your shine disappears during the day.

👉Do you want to know more? Agüita, baby – moisturizing for your skin

Take a vitamin when you fall in love

If that La Fiesta song already said it: take vitamins...

For breakfast, for lunch, for a snack, for dinner... and even for snacks if necessary.

With good vibes, a pinch of nose and, 🧪 The recipes, always with substance.

Siwon
We do cool right!

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Allergy to commitment: we do it… and we see

The diagnosis: what is the fear of commitment about?

Symptoms: x-ray of someone allergic to commitment

The causes: why are we reluctant to commit?

By evolution, statistics and biology

For traditions that smell like mothballs.

For a catalog of fears that not even Netflix has on Halloween.

Because the matches are no longer what they were.

Dr. Siwon's recipe for reconciling yourself with commitment

Handsomefyer xtra

all-in-1 cream with effect Have you done anything?

VITAMINS FOR YOUR SKIN

Vitamina A 🥕 'A'… de AA: Anti-Aging

Vitamin B (3) 💃 'B3'... good, pretty and beautiful

Vitamin B (5) 🙏 'B5' from… with hydration and lubricating I put it into you…

Vitamin C 🍊 'C' Color of the sand of the Camino Rocero

Vitamin D ☀️ 'D' de Dame cremita

Vitamin E 🌊 'E' from mirror mirror…

Take a vitamin when you fall in love

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