How to prepare for a date

Searching on Google or chatGPT for “how to prepare for a date” says a lot about the times we live in. It’s not that we’ve forgotten how to do it, but rather that We feel we are not entirely prepared to do it "right"Fear of "failing", pressure "to please", expectation that this has to end in marriage, happily ever after and a mortgage... And of course, before you even leave the house, you're already exhausted.
 

This blog isn't going to help you get more dates, it's about celebrating desire, play, and your beautiful body. 

BEFORE YOU LEAVE: A PRACTICAL CONCESSION (JUST TO FEEL IN CONTROL)

We'll get to the proposed change of mindset in about 300 words, but before that we also want to give you a checklist, some handouts; a certain sense of order before the delicious chaosNot to be more attractive, but to arrive at your date with your body at peace.

PASSED

Shower and hygiene

Hydration

Bass review

Baby clothes and perfume

Breathe

WHAT ARE YOU DOING

Clean face and body

Little face at its peak

Fix and condition intimate area

Wear something that doesn't disguise you but enhances you

3 slow breaths

WHAT IS IT FOR?

You reset, you start the day from 'zero'

It soothes the skin and the soul

Safety and freshness downstairs

A boost of confidence

Slow down

RECOMMENDED PRODUCT

MINTASTIC SOAP (body) and SPLASH FOAM PARTY (face)

DRAGON SHOT Hydrate and don't think about shine during the appointment

GIGGLEBERRIES intimate gel

Eau de Parfum FUSS

Slow down

DURING THE DATE: WHAT WE REALLY WANT (AND ALMOST NEVER SAY)

On a date, nobody expects you to be brilliant, flawless, and immaculate. Most of us are looking for something much simpler (and much more difficult): feel comfortable.
 

And, although the context isn't the same, to remember what situations make you feel comfortable… perhaps the easiest thing is to think about your get-togethers with friends, where you act silly without fear of being judged, and bring that attitude to your dates. Because in those moments:

  • Don't feel like you're taking an 'exam' and don't examine anyone else
  • You notice that the other person isn't acting, and you aren't acting either.
  • You show genuine curiosity, without any kind of strategy.
  • There are silences in which nothing happens.
  • You make jokes, you're absent-minded, you ramble.
  • You ask more weird questions than profound ones, like, "What used to embarrass you that you don't care about now?" or "What weird habit do you have that you only bring up with people you trust?"

Attitudes that lead nowhere and give you no vital information. They only open the possibility to a shared momentAnd perhaps that's what we should remember.

DATES WITHOUT A GOAL AND WITH DESIRE 

We've become accustomed to experiencing dating in terms of success or failureWith an objective, result, expectations, a grade you give it... But, in addition, we could also play (at least for the laughs) at redefining its terms: 

  • Understanding the seduction not as "manipulation techniques to conquer", but as giving the necessary time for something to happen (without anticipating what).  
  • Expanding the concept of privacy to something not only physical, but to any space where you open yourself up to another person without armor.
  • Rejoicing in the desire No need for an immediate solution. Maybe you're attracted to them, or maybe you're attractive and it's not reciprocated. How lucky (for everyone).
  • Changing, in short, the concept of 'appointment'for the opportunity to inhabit a space where one can be comfortable That's enough.

To be, without demonstrating, without evaluating, without being accountable. Possibly leading to something or not. And only then, Preparing for a date isn't about putting yourself to the test.. Is put intention, body, curiosity, and a game.

P.D.: If you accept that butterflies in your stomach and sweating are a delightful part of the dating process, but still don't want them in your nether regions just in case, you can turn to our Giggleberries, comprehensive care for the intimate area with deodorant and candy scent.

How to prepare for a date

Searching on Google or chatGPT for “how to prepare for a date” says a lot about the times we live in. It’s not that we’ve forgotten how to do it, but rather that We feel we are not entirely prepared to do it "right"Fear of "failing", pressure "to please", expectation that this has to end in marriage, happily ever after and a mortgage... And of course, before you even leave the house, you're already exhausted.
 

This blog isn't going to help you get more dates, it's about celebrating desire, play, and your beautiful body. 

BEFORE YOU LEAVE: A PRACTICAL CONCESSION (JUST TO FEEL IN CONTROL)

We'll get to the proposed change of mindset in about 300 words, but before that we also want to give you a checklist, some handouts; a certain sense of order before the delicious chaosNot to be more attractive, but to arrive at your date with your body at peace.

STEP 1. SHOWER AND HYGIENE

WHAT ARE YOU DOING: Clean face and body

WHAT IS IT FOR: You reset, you set the day to 'zero'.

RECOMMENDED PRODUCT: MINTASTIC SOAP (body) and SPLASH FOAM PARTY (face).

STEP 2. HYDRATION

WHAT ARE YOU DOING: Little face at its peak.

WHAT IS IT FOR: It soothes the skin and the soul.

RECOMMENDED PRODUCT: DRAGON SHOT Hydrate and don't think about shine during the date.

STEP 3. BASS REVIEW

WHAT ARE YOU DOING: Fix and condition intimate area.

WHAT IS IT FOR: Safety and freshness downstairs.

RECOMMENDED PRODUCT: GIGGLEBERRIES intimate gel.

STEP 4. BASS REVIEW

WHAT ARE YOU DOING: Fix and condition intimate area.

WHAT IS IT FOR: Safety and freshness downstairs.

RECOMMENDED PRODUCT: GIGGLEBERRIES intimate gel.

STEP 5. CLOTHES AND PERFUME

WHAT ARE YOU DOING: Wear something that doesn't disguise you but enhances you.

WHAT IS IT FOR: A boost of confidence.

RECOMMENDED PRODUCT: Eau de Parfum FUSS.

STEP 6. BREATHE

WHAT ARE YOU DOING: 3 slow breaths.

WHAT IS IT FOR: Slow down.

RECOMMENDED PRODUCT: Slow down.

DURING THE DATE: WHAT WE REALLY WANT (AND ALMOST NEVER SAY)

On a date, nobody expects you to be brilliant, flawless, and immaculate. Most of us are looking for something much simpler (and much more difficult): feel comfortable.
 

And, although the context isn't the same, to remember what situations make you feel comfortable… perhaps the easiest thing is to think about your get-togethers with friends, where you act silly without fear of being judged, and bring that attitude to your dates. Because in those moments:

  • Don't feel like you're taking an 'exam' and don't examine anyone else.
  • You notice that the other person is not acting and you are not acting either.
  • You show genuine curiosity, without any kind of strategy.
  • There are silences in which nothing happens.
  • You make jokes, you're absent-minded, you ramble.
  • You ask more weird questions than profound ones, like, "What used to embarrass you that you don't care about now?" or "What weird habit do you have that you only bring up with people you trust?"

Attitudes that lead nowhere and give you no vital information. They only open the possibility to a shared momentAnd perhaps that's what we should remember.

DATES WITHOUT A GOAL AND WITH DESIRE 

We've become accustomed to experiencing dating in terms of success or failureWith an objective, result, expectations, a grade you give it... But, in addition, we could also play (at least for the laughs) at redefining its terms: 

  • Understanding the seduction not as "manipulation techniques to conquer", but as giving the necessary time for something to happen (without anticipating what).  
  • Expanding the concept of privacy to something not only physical, but to any space where you open yourself up to another person without armor.
  • Rejoicing in the desire No need for an immediate solution. Maybe you're attracted to them, or maybe you're attractive and it's not reciprocated. How lucky (for everyone).
  • Changing, in short, the concept of 'appointment'for the opportunity to inhabit a space where one can be comfortable That's enough.

To be, without demonstrating, without evaluating, without being accountable. Possibly leading to something or not. And only then, Preparing for a date isn't about putting yourself to the test.. Is put intention, body, curiosity, and a game.

P.D.: If you accept that butterflies in your stomach and sweating are a delightful part of the dating process, but still don't want them in your nether regions just in case, you can turn to our Giggleberries, comprehensive care for the intimate area with deodorant and candy scent.

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